LEARN HOW TO SET THE MOOD OF YOUR PATNER WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BEDROOM

The bedroom is a place where a couple can let go. But men usually remain reserved, waiting for women to open themselves up. Don't fall into this cycle — it takes away from your experience.
It's also unfair, however, to expect your partner to be completely open: Women fear that they will be judged if they reveal what they think or fantasize about. Call it crazy, but many women can't help but hear their mothers' voices echoing: "GOOD GIRLS DON'T DO NAUGHTY THINGS."
In a recent survey taken among women, 90% admit to having vivid sexual fantasies, but remain afraid of sharing them with their partners. The fine line between ordinary sex and extraordinary sex is this fantasy element.
So what can men do to set the mood and bring out these fantasies? Read on to find out.

Create an atmosphere

If it's romantic love you want to make, set the atmosphere so that it reflects romance. The bedroom has to feel sensual and inviting. If you want your partner to feel a certain mood, the music can set it. During sex, music can maintain the mood, create an atmosphere, and set a rhythm you can follow. Obviously, heavy metal is not adequate; it'll only spoil the mood and turn her off.Once you've got soft music playing, fill the room with candles. Scented candles add considerable feel and charm to a romantic night. Certain fragrances are like an aphrodisiac for women, so choose scents correctly. If you find that your partner is not completely relaxed, a good bottle of wine or cocktail may put her at ease.

Dress her up

Another simple effective tip is to buy the outfit your partner will be wearing. Women like when their boyfriends or husbands buy them outfits and sexy lingerie. Since her man chose it especially for her, a woman can't help but feel sexier in it. Many men still fear women's lingerie boutiques, but with online shopping nowadays, men don't have to worry. Find anonline store, preview the outfit, buy it, and wait for UPS delivery. The only thing you have to do is gift wrap it.

Kiss her

Nothing excites a woman more than a long, sensual kiss. It is seductive and intimate. Proper kissing involves using the right amount of pressure and movement. Kissing can be used anywhere, anytime — even before you reach the bedroom. If you really want to get your woman in the right mood, kiss her face. Start with little pecks on her eyes, cheeks, chin, nose, and slowly outline her lips with the tip of your tongue. Once you get to her mouth don't dive in NFL-style. Slowly rest your lips on hers, putting pressure then pulling back, gently sucking her bottom lip. This will entice her and set the mood for later events.

Tempt her

Once the mood is set, don't fall into the "same old, same old" trap, and always try new experiments. Perhaps a toy or adult erotica will do the trick. Even if all you do is watch videotapes of other couples having sex, a woman will sometimes want to reenact the scene in the film.Even if she doesn't explicitly say it, you can judge her level of arousal by her breathing. Short breathing means that she is excited. Softly whispering how you feel to her can also increase sexual tension. Simply describe everything you are feeling, omitting the Shakespeare sonnets. This is the perfect moment to ask about her fantasies: Ask her an open-ended question, and be supportive of whatever answer she gives or she'll never open up again.
By now you should be heavily into foreplay. Let her know that you are willing to pleasure her. Oral sex can certainly solidify your anticipation of a night of great sex. For the man who don't properly know how to pleasure a woman orally, he should ask and allow her hands to help guide him. Time everything perfectly; this is perhaps the most important element for incredible sex. At this point, your partner should be completely relaxed and excited, and you are ready for a long night of passion.

ready, set... go!

There are a few things that you might want to consider before following these steps. Women are usually physically and mentally focused during sex. Men are there physically, but not mentally. It could be that men are thinking about work, the football game, another woman, etc. Whatever it is, don't get distracted — give her your full attention. Turn off the phone, the TV, and your pager. Leave all that you find comical in the guy's locker room — such as burping and making sounds with your butt. These things are great mood-killers. Most importantly, be respectful toward your partner; creating a bond of intimacy can go a long way.