DO YOU KNOW TO GIVE YOUR WOMAN A SEXUAL CONTROL??? HERE IS A LESSON

                           
Picture it: your woman is on top of you, slowly moving up and down on your member, driving you crazy with her moisture. The feeling is so intense that you feel like filling her up with your liquids so you grab her, put her on her back and start penetrating her at your tempo until you feel yourself explode. Sound familiar?
If not, then it's likely that your woman always expects you to initiate the foreplay, the lovemaking and the cleanup. Believe it or not, you're probably so accustomed to dominating in the bedroom that you've never even given it a second thought. And even if you give your woman temporary control, in the end, she'll end up on the receiving end of your sexual wrath.
But today, you're going to do things a little differently. Maybe if you let her take creative control in the bedroom, you'll discover things about yourself and her that you never took the time to realize before.
For a lot of guys, a woman taking control not only increases the intensity of their orgasms, but it also makes them feel more desired because she's initiating the lovemaking session. Are you ready?

baby, we need to talk

Of course, there are some women out there (maybe one is your girlfriend or wife) who are somewhat inhibited and don't express what they want you to do to them or what they want to do to you. As well, there are those women who fear that you might think less of them or assume that they've been about town if they start fulfilling their fantasies.Discuss your bedroom habits and let her know that she can feel free to do anything with you; after all she is your woman. Ask her about her fantasies; better yet, tell her about yours. And for God's sake, don't mention anything about her best friend, her sister, or butt plugs — at least not right away.
You have to keep in mind that if she's hesitant to take control, it's because she's feeling timid about being dominant, or she might assume that that's not what you want (you might think she's a skeezer). Mention that you fantasize about her coming on to you and ravishing you. Women are good listeners and she won't soon forget your fantasy.

what to do

The most important aspect of letting her take control is making her as comfortable as possible. How do you do that? Set the mood.Dim lighting, crazy music like something tribal (none of that Barry White stuff), a bottle of wine (or her favorite alcoholic beverage) to loosen yourselves up, and plenty of sexual talk will surely get the juices flowing.
I helped one of my girlfriends lose control by blindfolding the both of us. Because we couldn't see each other and were only able to use our other senses to drive each other crazy, she rode me like a soldier.
Besides blindfolds, you can encourage her to tie you up (not necessarily with handcuffs) and tease you until she feels like pleasing herself.
Another great turn-on includes role reversal. If you're the one who usually starts the little games, this time she can be you (the typical dominator) and you can be the more passive one. This way, she has to initiate foreplay and tantalize your body in its entirety. Then again, there's nothing quite like having a woman place her pleasure patch over your face, demanding that you lick her moisture.

slowly, slowly

When you're the one who's constantly deciding the tempo of lovemaking, you know when you're exiting and when you're penetrating and although it feels like nothing else in this world, it's still predictable.Now imagine her controlling the tempo. You have no idea if she's going to take it all inside of her or simply tease the head with her liquid gold. She can squat up and down on your member slowly, or she can keep all of you inside her and sway back and forth so that your penis taps her G-spot and she showers you with her ejaculate.
Give her the leeway to do what she wants and she might just surprise you. Soon after you both discover the vixen within her, you can begin to incorporate games and even toys into your sexual mix.

what if she's shy?

If she's the shy type, it might take a lot longer for things to progress. Get her to open up by asking questions that require "yes" or "no" replies while you're making love. When you're only letting the head of your penis enter her over and over again, ask her if she likes that.When you're kissing and sucking her nipples, ask her if she wants it rougher. If you show her that it's okay to talk about what she likes, she might just break out of her shell and start riding you like a soldier.
Of course, the comfort level rises with every passing day, and the longer you've been together, the more willing she'll be to open up, legs and all.